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Wednesday, August 02, 2006

Thirteen Clues about Responsibility and Empowerment



In an imperfect life spotted with arguments, messy rooms and periodic bad days, I’m blessed with glimpses of empowered, responsible kids. I hope these 13 snippets will inspire you to find those examples in your own children.

(P.S. Perhaps this will give you some ideas for the Pass the Torch Contest! Complete details at the Pass the Torch AWARD HUB: http://kellycurtis.blogspot.com/2006/07/pass-torch-award.html.)

Sometimes…:

1. He offers to make me breakfast.
2. She opens the door for the lady with an armload of groceries.
3. He donates hard-earned coins to charity.
4. She uses manners with the waitress, and orders her own food.
5. He surprises me, by cleaning his room the first time I remind him.
6. She feeds the cat without being asked (except by the cat;))
7. They accept a life-jumbling move because they know it will be better for the family.
8. They solve the never-ending and high-tension problem of “which game to play.”
9. She’s thoughtful about disturbing news stories describing hunger or war.
10. He befriends the new kid.
11. She stands up against a bully on the playground.
12. He accepts consequences for screwing up.
13. She forgives me for screwing up

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64 Comments:

  • Those are awesome! It is so nice to think of the good things every now and then!

    By Blogger *~*Michelle*~*, At 8:50 PM  

  • Love you TT ... also love the photograph on the top of your blog - fantastic!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 9:46 PM  

  • It's nice to see these thing and think "ah, they're good (sometimes)"

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 9:53 PM  

  • I think I shall do a list like this in my journal tomorrow

    thank you for the inspiration

    mama kelly

    ps they sounds like totally awesome kids

    By Blogger Mama Kelly, At 10:04 PM  

  • i think that's great! really wonderful kids. it's so rare that i find kids who have manners. i applaud them for their respect towards others. i think they will be very good and responsible adults looking at the way they are now. so happy for you, for them and for the lives they will touch.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 10:16 PM  

  • That's wonderful they do for you like that! Happy TT!

    By Blogger Meira{FB}, At 10:33 PM  

  • Thanks for all visiting!

    We're definitely proud of our kids. But it's easier to ignore the stuff that drives you nuts, when you can focus on the gems of goodness.

    I hope you'll all consider submitting a post for the Pass the Torch contest!

    By Blogger Kelly Curtis, At 10:34 PM  

  • It's so nice when you see good kids do good things!!

    My TT is up!

    By Blogger YellowRose, At 10:37 PM  

  • Sounds like you have some great kids!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 10:56 PM  

  • Sounds like you have Stepford Kids. Where do I order a couple? :-)

    By Blogger Dane Bramage, At 11:00 PM  

  • Too funny about the Stepford kids. I was thinking that EXACT thing when I wrote it. But NOPE. Some TT I'll just let loose all the stuff we're all doing wrong in our family;)

    I do try to focus this blog on the positive.

    (Imagine what my other blog would look like;)) Jekyll and Hyde

    By Blogger Kelly Curtis, At 11:05 PM  

  • Precious! I love all 13! What great kids... and a wonderful way to honor them!
    Happy T13!

    By Blogger Kimmy, At 11:05 PM  

  • Wow, I want Justice to be as great and giving as yours. I will work on training him up right! Thanks for the inspiration. My list is up!

    By Blogger Unknown, At 11:12 PM  

  • Very nice post. What wonderful kids!

    LOL at the feeding the cat one. Mine never forgets to ask if his family isn't up by about 6:00 to feed him!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 11:25 PM  

  • Sounds like you are doing a great job with them!!!

    Happy TT!!

    By Blogger Crayonsetc, At 11:30 PM  

  • Wow, thats an awesome header graphic you have. Nice to know the good things, very inspirational. Thanks for visiting and Happy TT!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 11:34 PM  

  • Those were very nice!
    Great idea too!
    My TT is up.

    By Blogger Raggedy, At 11:38 PM  

  • great list!

    Happy TT!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 11:51 PM  

  • You have some very thoughtful, and mannerly children there. You are blessed!

    My TT is up.

    By Blogger Barbara, At 12:13 AM  

  • COOL list!

    Happy TT!

    By Blogger Knitting Maniac, At 12:48 AM  

  • well...it might if I had kids, but I don't ... so um, I'm glad they're learning how to be responsible!

    My 13're up!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 12:48 AM  

  • Wow, those are awesome observations about your kids. Hope you compliment them on these godly traits. My TT is up.

    By Blogger Lazy Daisy, At 12:51 AM  

  • I think that sometimes people focus on the big issues, and they miss out on the small everyday things that show the true person! Great list!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 1:25 AM  

  • very positive outlook. great post!

    By Blogger the lizness, At 1:29 AM  

  • I am so thankful for this list - cause I still struggle with some of these. Although some are in different settings.

    By Blogger The Merry Rose, At 1:32 AM  

  • A very nice TT.

    The pass the torch contest sounds really interesting. I might have a story or two tell.

    By Blogger Unknown, At 1:41 AM  

  • I don't have kids, but enjoyed your TT nevertheless!

    By Blogger Tink, At 1:45 AM  

  • That was a great list! Your kids sound awesome.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 4:19 AM  

  • i KNOW i am doing a good job when i see my kis routinely do things like these. great list.
    my tt is up.

    By Blogger Laura, At 4:21 AM  

  • You know, Many of those I have tried to incorporate into my own life as a grown up!
    There is a new commercial for an insurance company on TV. Instead of showing their good side, they show people doing good things for each other.
    I think that's what it's all about.

    By Blogger Maribeth, At 6:45 AM  

  • you have to remember the good things to help you get through the bad ones. :)

    By Blogger Carmen, At 7:15 AM  

  • Great way of looking at the positive! (something I need to work on!)

    By Blogger Lisa, At 8:39 AM  

  • Welcome to Thursday Thirteen! I hope you enjoy it and meet many others! The time you have invested in your children shows. Thanks for sharing.
    My TT is up!

    By Blogger Changed by His Love, At 8:50 AM  

  • Sounds like you did a great job in raising them. :)

    Happy TT!
    Mine are up.

    By Blogger Trish Ess, At 8:57 AM  

  • Forgive and forget! Good list. My T13 - Various Jobs Edition is up at Bloggin' Outloud - http://blogginoutloud.blogspot.com/2006/08/t13-various-jobs-edition.html

    By Blogger Lyn, At 8:58 AM  

  • So wonderful... thanks for sharing.

    By Blogger Shannon, At 8:59 AM  

  • Great list! I love hearing people appreciate their own children! My kids are pretty nice, too.

    By Blogger Beck, At 9:08 AM  

  • Those are great and wonderful tips to be learned and followed.
    My TT13 is up too.

    By Blogger FRIDAY'S CHILD, At 9:13 AM  

  • You have some cool kids. It's great to see children absorbing great values.

    By Blogger Amanda, At 9:19 AM  

  • I love your site! In addition to humor writing, I also work with teens as a Spanish tutor and like you, I see AMAZING things in kids! Jenny (new to the whole TT thing :)

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 9:35 AM  

  • There's nothing more important than raising good human beings. Everything you do now pays of in dividends in the long haul.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 10:09 AM  

  • Your great kids are truly a product of your great parenting. I wish I knew more parents who took time to recognize the "little" things their kids do.

    It's those things that will make them successful in the "real world."

    Those things...and your affirmation.

    By Blogger Kukka-Maria, At 10:38 AM  

  • #13 is the one that breaks my heart. Sounds like you have some fantastic kids.

    By Blogger Minerva Jane, At 10:44 AM  

  • Now you can relax, you are doing a beautiful job! happy TT :)

    By Blogger MaR, At 11:01 AM  

  • Isnt it nice when kids do good things. It sure makes my heart sing. Shows that kids do know how to listen and behave. Thanks for sharing. my list is up too.

    By Blogger Carey, At 11:57 AM  

  • Great list!

    Catherine
    http://le-mon-ade.blogspot.com
    http://angelfoodcakeisntacandle.blogspot.com

    By Blogger cdorsey, At 1:08 PM  

  • You are one lucky Mama! :)

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 1:09 PM  

  • It's so wonderful that you took the time to really notice and treasure those moments - those are the moments that matter most!!

    Happy Thursday, thanks for joining in!

    By Blogger Leanne, At 1:15 PM  

  • I love it!! I'm stealing your idea for next week. Inspiring!
    SB

    By Blogger Shelli, At 2:05 PM  

  • Awww, those are great! Happy TT!

    By Blogger Lindsey, At 2:15 PM  

  • Great list... I can't wait! (My kids are 4 and almost 7 and not quite there with most of these things.)

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 2:35 PM  

  • There's nothing so wonderful as our own dear children. It sounds like yours are being raised with compassion and understanding, of which there's never enough in this world.

    By Blogger Bellezza , At 2:44 PM  

  • i loved your tt :)

    i guess it means you're doing your job well ;)

    i'm not a om yet, but i'm terrified of the idea that i might not be a good educator and up bringer...

    By Blogger Lilize, At 5:08 PM  

  • Come by and see thirteen "writing spaces" of my author friends!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 5:54 PM  

  • Great idea! Way to notice and encourage the POSITIVES! :)

    By Blogger Lisa, At 8:37 PM  

  • Hi Kelly - I just wanted to let you know you've been selected as a featured blog for the week at the Hub. Congrats and enjoy!

    By Blogger Leanne, At 9:45 PM  

  • If all of us commended, celebrated and applauded the children for the wonderful things they do instead of getting after them all the time about what they haven't done or done right, the world would be a much better and happier place.

    Thanks for the wonderful list and the reminder to notice all those great things our kids do.

    By Blogger Turtles, At 9:54 PM  

  • Woohoo!!! My TT was selected at the hub! That is so cool! Thank you!

    And thanks to all you TT-ers that have left such thoughtful and affirming comments to this post. It reassures me that I'm not alone in looking at what's right in kids!

    By Blogger Kelly Curtis, At 10:16 PM  

  • There was no way I could pass up the chance to be number 69 on such a distinctive list. What an honor!

    Bayou Bull

    By Blogger Bill Fullerton, At 10:29 PM  

  • Wow... not only do I love this TT, I love the whole concept of your blog. I will be back to check out more of your writing, and also to learn about the contest! We are getting ready to begin the process of adopting and raising them to be empowered sounds excellent! I also love your quote about kids being the future and procrastinating. Excellent concept.

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 3:57 AM  

  • What nice children!

    My TT is up!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 12:16 PM  

  • Beautiful! I love this, it reminds me that not ALL kids are intolerable. lol

    My TT is up!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, At 12:17 PM  

  • Aww...befriending the new kid at school is always the sign of a good kiddo. It sounds like you have great ones!

    Thanks for stopping by my TT!

    By Blogger Pink Chihuahua Princess, At 9:34 PM  

  • My favorite is the thoughtfulness about news-stories...it is unusual at that age to care about things outside one's own social circle.

    By Blogger Traci Anerson, At 3:43 AM  

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